Why Resonance Matters - Part 1

I have a saying I use when coaching people who want to create changes in their lives.

“Your resonance determines your reality.”

When you resonate with something, it is true for you. We all resonate with lots of things very easily and naturally. And, those things tend to show up pretty easily in our experience. When you are not easily manifesting or attracting the people, things, situations and events that you desire, there are only a few things that could possibly be causing the breakdown. Not being fully 100% resonant is the most significant factor.

Here are all of the ways you can sabotage your desires and get in your own way. Do you ever do any of these?

1. You are not fully clear on what you want, (your intention or desire).
   
   
2. You are not fully aligned and resonant with your intention. What this means is, there are inner conflicts present (often unconscious) which are causing a lack of resonance within you. The inner conflicts are things like fear, doubt, conflicting beliefs, and conflicting habitual thought patterns. In general, it’s the resistance to moving forward -- that seemingly invisible force field that can stop you in your tracks.
   
   When you are fully resonant with your intention, there are zero inner conflicts present. Getting people fully resonant with their intentions is what I specialize in. This process can produce stunning results very quickly.
   
   
3. You are habitually allowing your mind to focus on the negative aspects of whatever subject you are thinking about in any given moment. In order to become masterful at easily manifesting your desires, you need to learn to habitually keep your attention positively focused on what you want, what you already have and how you’d like things to be.
   
   In other words, stay focused on the positive of every subject that you think about. This is much easier said than done, however, I have ways to make it very easy to do this. When you become resonant with it being easy, it then becomes easy, and consequently you can easily create the habit of always thinking in this way. Shifting this one habit can radically change your reality!
   
   
4. You are not taking action in the direction of your intention.
   
   
5. You are not allowing for the infinite organization of the details. In a nutshell, your ego loves to feel like it's making everything happen in your life. However, when you surrender to the infinite organizational power of God (or the Universe), you find that things get done easily without your having to do so much. We are built to "co-create" with God using our thought, intention and desire. The more we allow God and the Universe to handle the details and do the "heavy lifting" for us, the more easy and fulfilling life becomes.
   
   

So, when you are fully resonant with your intentions and desires, they easily flow into your experience, provided you don’t interfere with this process (see #3, 4 and 5 above for the most common ways people interfere).

When you are not fully resonant, the inner conflicts have the upper hand and what will likely show up in your reality will be people, situations and events that are in alignment with the conflicts.

What you are wanting consciously won’t actually get you very far if you still have inner conflicts present and activated. You can want to be a millionaire all day long, but if there are conflicting beliefs inside, things like “rich people are mean, being wealthy isn’t spiritual, I don’t deserve to be wealthy, etc” then the chances of you manifesting your desire to be wealthy are pretty slim.

So, why does being resonant matter? Because, getting resonant with your intentions and desires is the fastest, most powerful way to accelerate the manifestation process. And, that means it's the fastest way for you to be living the life your truly want to live.

Please feel free to contact me if you have questions or comments about this article.

Click here to read Part 2 of this article.

Written by Paul Rarick with www.optimalifecoach.com. Distribution of this article is authorized provided author's name and contact information are included.

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