Getting Resonant - Going Deep

Being aligned and 100% resonant with what you want in life is a very effective way to manifest or attract your desires. A strong internal resonance seems to "pull" the desired reality right to you. With this approach, you use the power of your thought and intention in a co-creation process with God and the universe to bring into existence whatever you desire to experience in your physical reality.

The overall process that I use is very simple:

1. Get clear on what you want to show up in your physical experience (how would you like things to be different?),

2. Get aligned and fully resonant with what you want, which means removing all conflicts on the thought level (conflicting habits, doubts, fears, needs and beliefs), and removing any unresolved emotional energies that could in any way interfere with your desire easily showing up,

3. Get out of the way, and stay out of the way while you are waiting for your desire to actually appear in your physical experience. This is the most challenging part for most people, as we have many ways that we unconsciously interfere with the natural process of intention and manifestation.

There are 8 levels of resonance that I work through in order to clear everything that might be interfering with the message you are "sending out" (like a radio signal) of what you want in life. The more powerfully you are aligned with your desires, the more powerful the message you are sending. Here are the levels that I work through to become deeply resonant with any desire or intention. You could plug any desire into the blank in each statement:

I already HAVE _______ in my physical experience.
I already AM the state of _______.
I really really WANT _______ to be present in my physical experience.
I know, trust and believe that I am totally WORTHY of having _______ in my physical experience.
I know, trust and believe that I am totally DESERVING of having _______ in my physical experience.
I know, trust and believe I CAN have _______ in my physical experience.
I know, trust and believe I WILL have _______ in my physical experience.
I am totally WILLING to do “my part” to have _______ appear in my physical experience.

People are often amazed to find out that they are not fully aligned with their desires, even desires that they've held for a long time. By the way, if you've had a desire for a very long time and it hasn't come true yet, that's a very good indication that you've got some conflicting thoughts or emotions running.

A person might think, "Well, of course I really want this to be present in my physical experience!" But, when we look at what the actual resonance is, there are things in the way.

For example, even though we might think we want X, there is likely some part of us that is not onboard with having it. There is some resistance which is often part of a deeper pattern of resisting change, fearing the unknown.

Resisting Change is one of the "12 Core Dynamics, and I run into it a lot when working with clients. It's just human nature to resist change, however, this pattern can be reversed and you can have a new habit of "living in the wonder and delight of uncertainty" which is one of my favorite intentions. Just imagine how different you'd feel if you lived from a place where you enjoyed the fact that everything is changing and uncertain. All the magic and miracles of life happen in uncertainty. So, if you want your life to be more magical and miraculous, you have to live where those things naturally occur.

The bottom line with all of this, and I guess what I'm trying to convey in this article, is that there is a way to have your life be much closer to an ideal life than the life you are currently living. And, the path to that life is much easier than you may realize provided you take the easy path. The easy path is one on which you use your power of thought and intention, along with the skills of knowing how to allow things to easily show up in your experience. This is how I live my life and it works. This is what I share with clients and support them in learning how to do.

If something about this article intrigues you and you’d like to take a closer look at how your life might be impacted by applying this approach, I encourage you to call or email me to set a time to do that. Just having some intellectual understanding of this is sometimes not enough for you to actually “know” if this is something that would benefit you or not. You may also need to have an “experiential” awareness of this in order to be fully clear. Refer to this article for more on that topic.

I invite you to schedule an "Accelerate Your Success" intro session which can be done over the phone or in person.

Written by Paul Rarick with www.optimalifecoach.com. Distribution of this article is authorized provided author's name and contact information are included.

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